Judy called Tuesday and told me her side of the encounter.
The reason she came on home rather than coming with me to the conference is she kept accusing me of provoking Michael. I tried to tell her that Satan was behind the conflict and that this was the third time Michael had threatened me physically and in none of those cases have I attacked him verbally or otherwise. Michael hates what I represent.
I told her that her attack on me represented unfaithfulness understanding that is was her son on the other side. A couple are to be committed to each other even above their children. So, I told her that we were going to a place of healing and that if she did not want to come, she should go home.
I dropped her off on Monday at the airport and told her to have Karen Reeder pick her up at the airport. She said no that she would just connect with you on a Tues flight. I thought that was a mistake but due to her state of mind I did not argue.
She told me when she called that she just wants to get away from all of us. I told her not to talk to anyone but the Lord.
Judy does not feel loved and I take responsibility for mt part in that having been unkind and disrespectful to her on occassions. My priority going forward is to heal our relationship.
As to being a guarantor, I am not sure what that means. If it means paying the rent in case you default, I am not in position to do that. Since you don't have an income as yet, I don't think it would be wise to take that step until you do. It is very easy to get in a financial bind, but difficult to get out of one.
There have been a lot of rash moves on several of our parts and that needs to end. Taking corrective action is wise but it needs to be done wisely.
No talking, merely coexisting is the short term treatment for the relationship temperature. Once the temperature subsides it will be possible to talk.
Move forward with your job plans and a budget to match your income. Then you can step out in solidarity.
You and I are the strong ones spiritually in all of this and it is us who will get things back into peace and love.
Love, dad.