Let us therefore follow after the things which make for peace, and things wherewith one may edify another. Rom 14:19 peace is elusive in the soulish realm.     Those of us In Christ must follow after peace by making every effort to defuse situations where strife and conflict arise.      It also takes considerable patience and effort to edify others because of Self Will and stubbornness.      What 'things' should we 'follow after' to bring about peace and and enable edification?         → Love    → Truth    → Holy Spirit

Courtesy is almost a thing of the past.   The 'me' generation has become so wrapped up in itself that there is almost a war of aggression taking place in Society.   

There are specific areas where Courtesy has virtually disappeared.   

1. Driving - Carelessness , Accidents and Road Rage
2. Conversation - Listen and Talk
3. Restaurants - Waiters and Climate
4. Children - Infinite potential for Good or Evil
5. Animals - Beasts of the field
6. Devices - TV , Phone

And as you would that men should do to you, do you also to them likewise. Luk 6:31 The Golden Rule.

If a man say, I love the Lord, and hates his brother, he is a liar: for he that loves not his brother whom he has seen, how can he love the Lord whom he has not seen? 1Jn 4:20 In Christ we operate in love by the Holy Spirit and cannot hate.